My cervix is soft and squishy is this bad?

When you are pregnant, it is not a good idea to check your own cervix. Since you're not trained to do it, you could accidentally cause yourself to go into labor or introduce harmful bacteria so it's something best left to a professional. When you're not pregnant, you have every right to check it out and many women who are TTC do it regularly, which is fine. But, it's risky when you're carrying a child. Soft and squishy can be something totally different from one woman to the next so no one can really tell you what it means for you. If you're concerned, you should ask your doctor about it and they can give you their professional opinion.